In A Relationship

Ciaossu..hayday bloggers..Seems like its been a long time

 since the last time I wrote an entry here (and who cares..rite). 

Well lately, Mr. laziness is attacking me, 

together with this flu and fever and bla bla bla that gang up on me now. 

Gezzzz..But nothing I can do.. So, these week I've been so lazy..

2 days holiday for Hari Raya celebration, and its not enough. Yesterday I'm took an MC (but its yayyy for me..hahahh) cuz I'm feeling unwell. So, I juz stayed home and I was like browsing the internet for nothing, open my mail, watching TV (not really)..and cooking (a little). Juz now I've read this one article about being in relationship. Well, I'm not so new into this kind of thingy..

 In fact,I think that I have so many experience about this. 

But to give a philosophy about love,hahahh..who am I to talk about those thing. 

What I want to say is juz my opinion about what the article try to deliver to its readers....

Soo.. when you get into a relationship, one of the primary aspects of it 

is to understand the person you are having a relationship with.

 Often people make the  mistakes of putting across their point and not listen

 to what the other person has got to say. 

Nowadays, people have a mindset, what's there for me, what ways do  I benefit and so on.

 There are very very few exceptions where people are in a relationship

 and they do think beyond their own interests. 

So what is needed to build up successful relationship? 

If we look beyond the smiles and happiness of being in successful relationship, 

we might be surprised to wonder the toughness of the sacrifices 

and compromises the person must have done. 

So, lets analyze why we do sacrifice or why do we compromise. 

If you think well through, you will realize that there isn't any relationship

 where people haven't sacrificed. It's a way of life dude...face it.

 We need to work for a relationship, not just let it work for you. 

Success is lies in the fact that how well we make our relationship works for us. 

Trust is the main pillar for a relationship.

 Sacrifice and compromise makes up the walls for the same. 

So we need to strengthen the trust we have in a relationship.

 Its true that we need to sacrifice our ego and be modest. We thus need to live in a limitations in a relationship we are sharing.

 However, we should never loose our self respect at any cost.

Well as for me, honesty is above all when we talk about being in a relationship.

 How we can put our trust to our partner when honesty wasn't there..am I right?

 And honesty build up the trust..

 Often we hear the older said "trust is like a glass, once it is broken, it will never be the same anymore". Well..deep meaning. I do believe that sacrifice and compromise is important in a relationship..and patient too. 

I once read an article about a girl who's fought with her bf about an issue.

I don't know la about what. But I guess,it was because a false decision 

she has made without telling her bf. 

Well, girls out there..No matter how independent you are,

 no matter how tough or capable you think you are..

Please and please, never make any decisions without involving your partner. 

I mean, whenever you think the decision you made will involve your relationship, why not you discuss it together with your partner.

 How to build a successful relationship when you never try to?

 You don't have to be selfish and never try to understand your partner..

That is so wrong. 

Bur surely, different people has their own opinion about this issue..well I'm just saying...

P/S: Do what you think is right, for you will be criticize for it anyway..Hahahah....=)

Rambling about the Hectic Dayssss..

Oh my..Its been a hectic days lately..I rarely got times to stay online..(Except to check my emails)..I didn't got time to update my blog,look at this..Its abandoned!! Yeahh..Many interesting things happen to me lately,but I found that that wasn't something that needs to reveal here in blogs...well not everythings and everythings need to share to the whole world (sorry for being sarcastic here..But lemme tell ya..I love sarcasm..Hahahha)..You no need to write every single things about your life, your love affairs, your future expectation to the world. Honestly I feel annoyed reading an entry about love fight,I mean, izit necessary to tell that you are now fighting with your bf/gf bcuz of bla bla bla...And saying you know that that was your fault at the first place...Oh my my...

Especially about works,that was soooo sooo not cool at all..I hate that part!!! It doesn't mean that Im a lazy, nope..But I kind of people who doesn't love to talk about works during my resting time. Cuz I want to appreciate my time,why bother to think about works..Hahhaah..I wont complaining about this and that..Its your job,you don't like it?Find another one...That was what I kept telling myself..up until now..and honestly it keeps me on fire..(If you know what I mean...^__^)

Owkay..why am I nagging at this time???..Hahahhaha...Funny me..I gave a bad intro into my entry.This tiredness is killing me..Now I don't have much time to read my novels anymore..Huhuh..And driving back from works really tiring. But luckily Im driving my own car instead of taking any bus (LOL..). so that is a good part laa..Oh yaa..talking about car,I cannot wait to see the emblem that I've ordered from someone at Peninsular..Yayyy..Its a genuine Proton's part,and i want it so badly..Hahahah!!

So enough for now,its late already...I need to sleep early and wake up in the morning with a happy fresh face.LOL...I will not let anything else that can turn me into misery interrupt my life.Ehh...apa ba sa cakap ni??Hahhah...Ciao Ciao...Nighty nite!!

Royals

I've never seen a diamond in the flesh

I cut my teeth on wedding rings in the movies

And I'm not proud of my address

In a torn-up town, no post code envy

But every song's like gold teeth, grey goose, trippin' in the bathroom

Blood strains, ball gowns, trashin' the hotel room,

We don' care, we're driving Cadillacs in our dreams,

But everybody's like Crystal, Maybach, diamonds on your time piece.

Jet planes. islands, tigers on a gold leash.

We don' care, we aren't caught in your love affair.

And we'll never be royals (royals)

It don't run in our blood,

That kind of luxe just ain't for us

We crave a different kind of buzz

Let me be your ruler (ruler)

You can call me queen Bee

And baby I'll rule, I'll rule, I'll rule

Let me live that fantasy.

My friends and I - we've cracked the code

We count our dollars on the train to the party

And everyone who knows us knows that we're fine with this,

We didn't come for money.

But every song's like gold teeth, grey goose, trippin' in the bathroom

Blood strains, ball gowns, trashin' the hotel room,

We don' care, we're driving Cadillacs in our dreams,

But everybody's like Crystal, Maybach, diamonds on your time piece.

Jet planes. islands, tigers on a gold leash.

We don' care, we aren't caught in your love affair.

And we'll never be royals (royals)

It don't run in our blood,

That kind of luxe just ain't for us

We crave a different kind of buzz

Let me be your ruler (ruler)

You can call me queen Bee

And baby I'll rule, I'll rule, I'll rule

Let me live that fantasy. 

Ooh ooh oh

We're bigger than we ever dreamed,

And I'm in love with being queen.

Ooh ooh oh

Life is great without a care

We aren't caught up in your love affair.

And we'll never be royals (royals)

It don't run in our blood,

That kind of luxe just ain't for us

We crave a different kind of buzz

Let me be your ruler (ruler)

You can call me queen Bee

And baby I'll rule, I'll rule, I'll rule

Let me live that fantasy. 

Yeahhh love this song..Cant help myself listening to this song repeatedly..LOL..The first time I heard the song (well yeahh honestly I said,Who's this singer? That was so unpopular..Hahha..screw me to ask such question)... The music is nice and peaceful..But I got this uneasy feeling about how its video looks like..And I look at its video on Vevo..Awwww..That was 1 of awful video I've ever seen..Hahahh..Honestly I don't get the video,the message its try to deliver..Nothing to do with the lyrics (or its me that so lame to understand...hmm..). Nevemind, I still enjoy the music..... =)