In A Relationship

Ciaossu..hayday bloggers..Seems like its been a long time

 since the last time I wrote an entry here (and who cares..rite). 

Well lately, Mr. laziness is attacking me, 

together with this flu and fever and bla bla bla that gang up on me now. 

Gezzzz..But nothing I can do.. So, these week I've been so lazy..

2 days holiday for Hari Raya celebration, and its not enough. Yesterday I'm took an MC (but its yayyy for me..hahahh) cuz I'm feeling unwell. So, I juz stayed home and I was like browsing the internet for nothing, open my mail, watching TV (not really)..and cooking (a little). Juz now I've read this one article about being in relationship. Well, I'm not so new into this kind of thingy..

 In fact,I think that I have so many experience about this. 

But to give a philosophy about love,hahahh..who am I to talk about those thing. 

What I want to say is juz my opinion about what the article try to deliver to its readers....

Soo.. when you get into a relationship, one of the primary aspects of it 

is to understand the person you are having a relationship with.

 Often people make the  mistakes of putting across their point and not listen

 to what the other person has got to say. 

Nowadays, people have a mindset, what's there for me, what ways do  I benefit and so on.

 There are very very few exceptions where people are in a relationship

 and they do think beyond their own interests. 

So what is needed to build up successful relationship? 

If we look beyond the smiles and happiness of being in successful relationship, 

we might be surprised to wonder the toughness of the sacrifices 

and compromises the person must have done. 

So, lets analyze why we do sacrifice or why do we compromise. 

If you think well through, you will realize that there isn't any relationship

 where people haven't sacrificed. It's a way of life dude...face it.

 We need to work for a relationship, not just let it work for you. 

Success is lies in the fact that how well we make our relationship works for us. 

Trust is the main pillar for a relationship.

 Sacrifice and compromise makes up the walls for the same. 

So we need to strengthen the trust we have in a relationship.

 Its true that we need to sacrifice our ego and be modest. We thus need to live in a limitations in a relationship we are sharing.

 However, we should never loose our self respect at any cost.

Well as for me, honesty is above all when we talk about being in a relationship.

 How we can put our trust to our partner when honesty wasn't there..am I right?

 And honesty build up the trust..

 Often we hear the older said "trust is like a glass, once it is broken, it will never be the same anymore". Well..deep meaning. I do believe that sacrifice and compromise is important in a relationship..and patient too. 

I once read an article about a girl who's fought with her bf about an issue.

I don't know la about what. But I guess,it was because a false decision 

she has made without telling her bf. 

Well, girls out there..No matter how independent you are,

 no matter how tough or capable you think you are..

Please and please, never make any decisions without involving your partner. 

I mean, whenever you think the decision you made will involve your relationship, why not you discuss it together with your partner.

 How to build a successful relationship when you never try to?

 You don't have to be selfish and never try to understand your partner..

That is so wrong. 

Bur surely, different people has their own opinion about this issue..well I'm just saying...

P/S: Do what you think is right, for you will be criticize for it anyway..Hahahah....=)